It is not uncommon for someone giving me a ride to, almost immediately, share their life story, their darkest secrets, their worst fears and most treasured hopes.
I have some theories as to why that is.
Firstly, both of us have made a leap to take a chance on a complete stranger. That makes for an initial connection between us based on trust. Secondly, I have no relation to or knowledge about anybody in your life. Or you. I have no preconceptions on anything and so you don't feel a need to hold back in what you might say. Lastly, I will disappear entirely from your life very soon, and take all that you've said with me.
Today, amongst seven rides between St Augustine and Miami, I came across two people who particularly opened up about troubles they were having. I listened and hoped that they were somewhat relieved by being able to offload on a stranger.
Amongst the many things I've learned from meeting so many people, is the fact that everyone is suffering with something, big or small, always. So let's do our best to look out for each other. Always.
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